Mental illiness

Mental illiness is a very difficult thing to deal with, when you have a love one that is coping with it.
My son, is 13yrs old, and he is bipolar ,ADHD. Both sides of the family has mental problems. BUT
I dont know if my real dad has any mental illiness, cause ive never been able to find him. I have tried for years .But no luck.. My sons doctors saidit would help my son alot if we could find my dadto see if he inherited any illiness from his side. so Ive just put it in GODS hands.with my son health
If he doesnt get any better he will be hospitalized .Believe ME meds is not the answer.
they dont solve the problem.they didnt for us they made it worse!